This is probably going to be a long post, so get comfy. Saturday (9/20) was the girls' big ladybug party. The day started out wonderfully. We sang Happy Birthday to Brynna and the girls played while I started getting things ready for the party. Some of my family weren't able to attend the party, so they had decided to visit earlier in the day. Aunt Trista arrived early. Braylee opened her gift...a Barbie fishing pole! Braylee had told Aunt Trista several months ago that she wanted to go fishing with her. During the girls' naptime, Trista and I helped Alex set up our gift for the girls...a trampoline! Of course, Trista and I couldn't resist and we tried it out. :) Then, my brother Travis and his family stopped in. The girls opened their gifts from them too...a princess scrapbook kit for Braylee and a Mrs. PotatoHead and accessories for Brynna. Side note: Braylee usually doesn't (even though she can if she thinks about it) put the "s" on the front of a word that starts with an S followed by another consonant. For example, she says things like "tinky" instead of stinky. Anyway, it's quite funny when Braylee says, "Where's my 'crapbook?" Or "Can I work in my 'crapbook?" :) While Travis and Heather were here, we also let the girls see the trampoline! They love it! So, the day was going wonderfully, except by this point, I was beginning to panic because their cake hadn't arrived. The cake is a huge deal for me...like a bride not having a gown on her wedding day. How can you not have a birthday cake at a birthday party?! So...when I realize it's 3:45 and I have NO cake, I start to
really panic. And sadly, the more I thought about it, the more frustrated I became... which I let get to me and ruin some of the evening for me. Pathetic, yes, I know. But let me just tell you how cute their cake would have been...it was to be red with black polka dots on the bottom layer and white with little ladybugs crawling on the sides of the top layer...Ribbon borders and a big ladybug on top as the finishing touches. Sounds lovely, doesn't it?! But alas, I resorted to a basic Wal-Mart cake. The truth is...the girls could have cared less and it saved me lots of money, but I was still very disappointed. :( Other than that, the party seemed to go great. The food was yummy, and the girls received loads of gifts. The weather was perfect too. When Brynna decided she was finally ready to open her gifts, we would tell her who the gift was from, she would open it and then take the gift to that person...like she thought it was FOR them instead of FROM them. It was really cute.
Sunday, we helped Sydney celebrate at her Strawberry Shortcake party.
Monday was Braylee's birthday. In the morning, we sang Happy Birthday again and she made another wish. ;) My mom and Trista arrived to join us on our little shopping trip. But first, the girls opened their gifts from Abbie & Max. I'd say Braylee definitely had a fun-filled birthday. At Los Bravos, she chowed down on tacos and chips & salsa, and she received a special bowl of ice cream for her birthday. Then we had their pictures taken. As usual, Braylee modeled and Brynna cried. I am not sure why Brynna refuses to cooperate at portrait studios?! We still caught some cute shots though. Next, on to the carousel! The girls enjoyed free rides and free punching balloons since it was their birthday. Then, the most special part of the day...Braylee made a cat named Lissa at Build-A-Bear. We let her pick everything completely by herself. And goodness, can this girl accessorize! ;) On our way out of the mall, we picked up some sparkly cookies. Yum!
Tuesday, I took the girls for their well checks with the pediatrician. Good news...Miss Brynna had a huge growth spurt!! From Sept 07- March 08, she only gained 1 pound 7 ounces, but in the last 6 months, she has gained 4 pounds 3 ounces! She went from 7% to 29%, so still below average on weight but looking better. And, she's
almost in the 50% for height now!! Yeah! So, she was 24 pounds 14 ounces and 33.5 in. In comparison to her sister at age 2, Braylee was 28 pounds and 35.25 in. As for Brynna's exam, everything checked out great except her right ear has fluid again. We decided to hold off on treating it for now. Her language skills have started to flourish! She's become a little jabberbox recently and is right on target for her age. She says 3 and 4 word sentences...complete sentences at that! ;) Her favorite 4 word sentence...I want cookie too! :) Now for Braylee...She continues along the same growth curves she 's been on since birth, 50% for wt and 90% for ht. She weighed 37 pounds and is 41.5 inches. He was very pleased with her development, doing things on a 5-year old level. Braylee seems to fit the "oldest" child persona perfectly.
Wednesday through Friday, I spent at Methodist with my family. Wednesday evening, we just visited with my Gramps, and then we were back over at the hospital at 5am on Thursday to see him before surgery. He had a LVAD (left ventricular assist device) placed...for faithful McDreamy followers, you may have heard of this on Grey's Anatomy. The whole concept is truly amazing. A metal pipe is put into the left ventricle and pulls the blood into a pump (running at 9000 rpms) that goes in a tube that's inserted into the aorta...pumping way more blood to his body than his heart was capable of doing. This device is only FDA approved for temporary use as a bridge to a heart transplant. Unfortunately, Gramps was removed from the transplant list 9 years ago when he no longer met the qualifying criteria. So, this is his last chance. They hope the pump is good for 8 years, but since it's new, they don't really know for sure. Without the pump, he probably wouldn't have made it to Christmas. We are beyond thrilled for him to receive this special gift!! As for the surgery, he came through the surgery fine, but was having lots of bleeding from his chest tubes. It was extremely scary for awhile...when the surgeon stands at the bedside for over an hour, you know it's not good. He had to be taken back to surgery. Around 2am, we were able to see him again and his vitals signs were much more stable. This pump is not pulsatile (earlier pumps were), so he doesn't have a palpable pulse now...really weird! And it makes his pulse pressure really narrow...when his vitals were bad, his blood pressure was running in the low 50s...like 55/50 and 53/48. We were so happy to see them more like 70/66 after the 2nd surgery...but for nurses, doesn't that just look strange?! At one point, I saw a 100/78, but that was the most normal BP I saw. When things were bad, they told us he would need to start dialysis Friday morning and he would be intubated through the weekend. Well, Praise the Lord!! He has yet to need dialysis and he was taken off the ventilator today!! Thank you so much to all of you who called or emailed me while I was there. It's wonderful to know you were all praying for him.
It was nice to be home today and get caught up on things. I missed my girls while I was at the hospital! It was so fun that Brynna was actually able to talk to me on the phone while I was away. :)